25+ Strange duties and rules the Royal Family must follow
Being a member of the British Royal family seems like a fun time, but they have many responsibilities. From meetings to charities to speeches, a royal’s day is packed. They even have some responsibilities that most people wouldn’t expect.
For instance, did you know that Royals cannot share their political opinions? Or that they are required to donate to charity? You might even be surprised by the common words they cannot say in public. Here are the strangest royal duties and rules.
They Must Attend 2,000 Events Each Year
It’s no secret that Royals are busybodies. But did you know that all of them attend at least 2,000 events each year? These events are scheduled around eight weeks in advance, and many are listed on their website.
Along with holiday celebrations, the royal family participates in charity events, garden parties, presenting awards, changing the guard, and more. And that’s just in the UK!
They Have To Own The Most Expensive Cars, Planes, And Boats
The British Royal family is 18 times richer than the Belgian Royalty and 29 times richer than the Spanish monarchy. Because of this, they pay a lot for expensive cars, clothes, and outings.
Deborah Mitchell, the facialist of Duchess Camilla, told Insider that Royals have “the best cars, yachts, and restaurants.” It is not just a perk; it’s a requirement. You will never see the Royal family in a busted car because they have to show their status.
They Cannot Share Their Political Opinions
Surprisingly, the Royal family is not allowed to share their political opinions outside of the palace. The official monarchy website states, “As Head of State The Queen has to remain strictly neutral with respect to political matters.”
Many believe that the Royals’ political opinions would sway the public, Commonwealth, and Parliament. Other family members are not held to the same strict standards, but they still do not declare their political preference for the same reason.
They Cannot Vote
In August 2020, Meghan Markle revealed that Prince Harry has never been able to vote in general elections. This is common. Royal family members are forbidden from voting in any election, especially in the UK.
According to the UK government, it is not illegal for a Royal to vote. However, it is considered unconstitutional, especially for the King or Queen. The late Queen Elizabeth II didn”t vote after her coronation in 1953, and many other Royals (especially senior members) followed suit.
They Work With Hundreds Of Charities
Charity work is an essential part of being a Royal. The Royal Family has links to hundreds of charities, both national and international. The Queen alone is a patron of 510 charities, and the entire family supports 2,415 charities in the United Kingdom.
The Royal family has many responsibilities to these charities. They will give speeches, present awards, open new centers, and work hands-on. Their attendance garners attention for these organizations and helps them raise more money.
…And They Have To Donate, Too
The late Queen Elizabeth II donated more to charity than any other monarch in history. According to The Guardian, she raised $1.8 billion throughout her rule.
It’s no surprise, then, that the rest of the Royal family is expected to donate. King Charles is well-known for investing his time in charities, even starting a few of his own: The Prince’s Trust and Plant Heritage.
They (Or Rather, Their Employees) Respond To Fan Mail
Did you know that the Royals have to respond to fan mail? More specifically, they appoint an employee to answer the letters. That way, the Royals get to read most fan mail, but they do not have to spend time writing responses and mailing them.
Each letter receives a personal response from the monarch via an assistant who listens to what they would like to say and writes it down. In 2019, Meghan Markle even responded to an American fan, with the letter written by the head of general correspondence for royals, Claudia Spens.
They Cannot Say “Common” Words
It’s no surprise that Royals must follow a certain manner of speech. Notably, they cannot use slang, referred to by the Crown as “common speech.” Unsightly words like “toilet” and “bathroom” are off-limits, but the list also gets weirder.
Royals cannot use the words “perfume,” “couch,” “living room,” “tea,” or “pregnant.” Instead, they replace them with more “sophisticated” terms such as “scent,” “sofa,” “drawing-room,” or “expecting.” They can’t even say certain polite words such as “pardon.”
Their Days Are Packed
During an interview with Insider, royal photographer Chris Jackson talked about how busy the Royals are. “[King Charles] often has eight engagements a day, and doesn’t have lunch—so that means I don’t either,” he said.
Royals are constantly hopping from one engagement to the other. They are also constantly socializing; they have to talk to the press, respond to interviews, shake hands with fans, etc. While being royalty seems glamorous, it is a lot more work than most people think.
They Host International Leaders
One of the Royal family’s duties is to host government leaders from around the world. These leaders visit Buckingham Palace, and the Royals themselves will greet and sometimes eat with them.
For instance, when President Joe Biden entered office in January 2021, Queen Elizabeth immediately arranged to meet him and members of the Group of Seven in June. Another example is in 2019 when the Queen hosted a reception for NATO leaders in Buckingham Palace. She met all of them personally.
The Ruling Monarch Approves All Proposals And Wedding Dresses
What did Prince Harry, Prince William, and Princess Beatrice’s engagements have in common? They all had to ask the Queen for permission. The tradition dates back to The Royal Marriages Act 1772. After the monarch approves, the couple may announce their engagement.
They Prepare State Banquets Over A Year In Advance
State Banquets are dinner parties hosted by the head of state or other members of the government, which includes the Royal family.
These banquets require at least a year of planning. The Master of the Household attends most duties, although Royals have to approve menus, decor, seating plans, and more. On D-Day in 2019, Buckingham Palace sat 170 guests for a single State Banquet.
The King Bestows Honors
The King is in charge of bestowing honors upon people to thank them for their service. It’s not just knighthood; honors also include dames, various medals, and members of Royal Orders.
The monarch also gives honors to members of the Royal family. Princess Kate Middleton received the Dame Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order in June 2019. Prince Harry became a Knight Commander of the order in 2015.
During Parliament, The King Must Wear Specific Clothing
Every May, King Charles opens Parliament. Along with his required speech, he has to wear a royal garb. These ceremonial pieces and traditions are integral to the process of opening the British Parliament.
Everyone Embarks On Royal Tours
During Royal Tours, Royals visit several other countries to act as ambassadors, improve relations, and soothe tensions. Usually, the princes and duchesses embark on these trips; the Queen rarely travels nowadays. Royal Tours require at least a year of planning.
Traditionally, Royal Tours would span for months, but these days they only last around two weeks. The Royal’s personal team schedules events, venues, gifts, and wardrobes. During these trips, the Royals will spend time with officials, locals, and celebrities.
The Royal Family Could Not Go To Bed Before The Queen
One surprising royal rule dictated the family’s bedtime. When Meghan Markle became the Duchess of Sussex, she discovered that nobody could go to bed before the Queen. And Queen Elizabeth II was a night owl; she often stayed up until midnight!
Reportedly, even Princess Diana struggled to stay awake as late as the Queen. Not even Prince Philip could rest early. As you can probably imagine, many Royals are not a fan of this rule.
Heirs Cannot Fly Together
When Royal families travel, heirs are not allowed to fly together. For instance, Prince Charles, Prince William, and their kids have to take separate planes. This rule guarantees that, if one plane crashes, the Crown will not be out of heirs.
In recent years, the monarchy has relaxed this rule because air travel is becoming safer. In 2014, Kate Middleton flew with nine-month-old Prince George for the first time. That said, Prince George took his own plane when he became older.
When The Queen Stopped Eating, Everyone Else Did, Too
If you were lucky enough to have dinner with the Queen, then you had to follow a strange etiquette rule. When the Queen started eating, everyone else began. And when the Queen finished, everyone else finished, too!
Darren McGrady, who was a royal chef for 11 years, says that the Queen was “not a foodie.” She often ate the same dinners, and she didn’t eat a lot, so guests might have to get more food afterward.
Couples Must Restrain From Public Affection
Royal couples follow strict rules surrounding public affection. During formal events, they must refrain from PDA to appear professional and not make any guests uncomfortable. That is why you’ll see Royals appearing distant and keeping their hands to themselves.
However, it seems that this rule only applies to formal events. During informal events, couples can display a bit more affection, explains royal etiquette expert Myka Meier. Learning how to appear “professional” is a large part of being a Royal.
Royals Must Accept Most Gifts
Members of the Royal family receive thousands of gifts every year from fans. For instance, Harry and Meghan got over 100 teddy bears before Prince Archie was even born. The Royals have to accept all of these gifts, even if they end up anonymously sending them to a charity or friend later.
There is one exception here: Royals cannot accept gifts from businesses or organizations, and they cannot take anything over £150. Essentially, Royals cannot accept gifts if they are expected to do something in return.
When Women Have To Wear Hats
Have you ever wondered why Kate Middleton and other female royals wear hats all the time? It is a royal rule. Since the 1950s, royal women have been required to wear hats during all formal occasions. These include Christmas, Easter, royal horse racing, weddings, and more.
This is just one of the wardrobe rules that the royals have to follow. Most royal fashion reflects 20th-century etiquette for the upper class.
On Overseas Trips, They Cannot Eat Shellfish Or Rare Meats
Royals follow strict food rules, especially while traveling. One of the most notorious is that they are not allowed to eat shellfish. Why? It is apparently done to avoid food poisoning. The BBC reported that shellfish has a higher risk of food poisoning than other foods.
This rule extends to other foods, such as rare meats that the Royals encounter abroad. If a Royal gets food poisoning, it will not only appear bad, but it would mess up their schedules for the next few days.
When A Birth Happens, The Monarch Is The First To Know
Pregnancies among Royals are a big deal. But when the mother gives birth, the ruling monarch is always the first to know. If they are not at the hospital, a royal aide will give them an encrypted code to tell them that the baby has been born. Senior members of the Royal family will also be told right after the monarch.
As you might imagine, the paparazzi buzzes during the birth of a new royal baby. Telling the monarch first will allow them to form a press response for the busied parents.
Royals Always Travel With An All-Black Outfit
Whenever a Royal travels, they have to pack an all-black outfit. According to The Independent, Royals do this to prepare for a possible death. If a family member passes away during a trip, everyone will have the proper attire available for a funeral.
Believe it or not, this rule isn’t just for the Royal family. Newscasters, stylists, photographers, and personal aids all must bring a black outfit if they are traveling for a royal event.
Royals Enter Rooms In A Certain Order
For Royals, even walking into a room feels like a duty. During most formal events, Royals must enter based on their ranking, called the Order of Precedence. First, the King enters, then Prince William, Princess Kate, and so on.
That said, some events do not require the Order of Precedence. Royal historian Marlene Koenig told BAZAAR that the Order of Precedence only occurs at diplomatic, state, and formal events. Thank goodness for the Royals!
They Cannot Take Autographs Or Selfies
If you’re hoping to meet a Royal for an autograph, you’re out of luck. Royals are prohibited from giving autographs to anyone. This is a security measure to ensure that nobody will create a forgery of a Royal’s signature.
What about selfies or photos? Although Royals are encouraged to meet people, they cannot take pictures with them. First off, Royals cannot make physical contact with fans; second, they cannot turn their back on the King or the rest of the family.
