12. The List: II
- If I try to feed you (cook or buy food, like a Subway or pizza).
- If I try to get you to play the video game I like.
- If I speak to you for nothing but a conversation or link you a meme to get a conversation going. You aren’t asked for or to do anything, except maybe hang out with me :}. If a girl speaks to you then almost instantly asks you to drive her somewhere without you (like a party) then she isn’t into you. If she speaks to you then asks if you wanna go see a movie, she may be!
- If I tell you about events I think are cool and totally want to go to.
- If I take an interest in the music/films etc you link to me.
- If I let you get into my personal bubble – this is a hard one to determine. You have to observe a female in her natural habitat (with friends). Does she stand slightly closer to you when talking to you? Does she lean toward you when you sit next to each other? Does she touch you or impede on your personal space unexpectedly? It can be hard to tell with more “touchy feely” people.
- If I’m talking to you way after my bedtime.
- Or you could stop looking for signs and just ask 😀
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13. The List: III
I’m a woman and I’m not going to speak on behalf of all women, but these are true for me:
- If I smile/laugh around you a lot. Just naturally. I have an “easy laugh”, but if I really laugh at a lot of what you say, I like you… a lot. I think for me it’s true in how much I smile around someone, and if my laugh sounds a bit breathy. When I genuinely laugh, I definitely sound like I’m a bit out of breath. I need this one – I need someone whose sense of humour goes well with mine. If we can’t joke with each other or laugh at the same kinds of things, we’re doomed lol.
- If I don’t know you yet, I may not be good at eye contact. Once we’ve spoken and stuff, I will hold eye contact. I’ve had times where I held eye contact with someone before I knew them, but that can be hard for me sometimes before I’ve gotten to talking to someone. Just shyness maybe.
- If I lick my lips/bite my lips or play with my lips at all.
- Texting-wise… my response rate varies. But if I’m sending you a 🙂 or pleasant messages, it means I want to continue talking. If it’s just “cool. good luck” or something, I’m not into it. But I wouldn’t put too much weight into response rate for me at least.
- If I feel comfortable touching you, or you touching me. If I hold your arm or something, that means I wanna see you naked (LOL). +100 pts for me touching your thigh or knee area. That is 100% a “I wanna get with you”. I’m not touchy with people I don’t have that bond with, but when I feel it, I’ll be really touchy.
- I generally dress myself well and all, but if I put an effort to look extra sexy around you, it’s probably because I like you. I’m comfortable in sweats, too, so putting that a dress on = I LIKE YOU.
Etc.
14. Nerd Love
When she joins your guild and wants to run dungeons with you, even the ones that drop useless things.
15. Wrasslin’
Play fighting & teasing.
16. Honesty
I mean, I just told my now-boyfriend that I wanted to hang out with him and touched him a lot and told him that he looked nice.
17. Attention
The attention we give you
18. Or… Maybe not…
TIL why some guys think I’m flirting with them. … 🙁
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