Life is full of hard truths that we all have to accept at one point or another…
But that’s what makes us human, right?
But still, even though we realize our fellow humans are going through it too, there are a lot of hard pills to swallow…let’s see what AskReddit users had to say about this.
1. Absolutely.
“A lot of people are not fit to be parents.
I come from a long line of sh**ty parents. Mine have been the best so far and I still believe they weren’t ready to have kids and ended up giving me lots of trauma to sort out because they didn’t wait.
If you can’t genuinely handle it, PLEASE don’t have kids, they will be grateful for it I’m sure.”
2. Look in the mirror.
“Sometimes you’re the toxic one in the relationship.
And most of the time you don’t even know you are the toxic one.”
3. Indeed.
“That life isn’t fair.
You will face heart-breakingly tragic things that are beyond your control.
Some more than others, but everyone has something. Be kind.”
4. Gotta deal with it.
“If someone isn’t into you as much as you are into them, there really isn’t much you can do about it.
Even just waiting is often bad for you in the long run.”
5. Not made to last.
“Not all friendships were made to last.
That doesn’t make you a bad person, or a bad friend, it just means it’s time for you to find someone better, even if it doesn’t seem like there is.”
6. Doesn’t always work out.
“That doing your best does not mean you will succeed.
Also sadly, not everyone’s “best” is good enough for what they’re trying to accomplish.
We are not all physically, mentally and intellectually equal, and we all have different strengths.”
7. Nope.
“”If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”.
Nope, I’m petty enough to call someone out on their bulls**t and walk away so I don’t feed their need for attention anymore.”
8. It’s true.
“Looking for others to validate your sense of worth will always end in ruin.
It’s true.”
9. Doesn’t exist.
“Sometimes the people who mistreat you won’t face justice or “karma.”
Still trying to come to grips with that.”
10. Yes.
“You aren’t as nice as you think you are.
We judge others by their actions, and ourselves by our intentions.”
11. A HUGE one right now.
“Opinions are not facts.
Someone please explain this to my in-laws…”
12. This is good.
“Your mental health is not your fault. But it is your responsibility.
And sometimes that really sucks. But if you hurt someone you still owe them an apology.”
And now we want to hear from you.
Tell us what you think about this in the comments.
Thanks a lot!
