There are tons of things we wish we could ask the opposite sex, but sometimes, we don’t – often because we don’t feel like, for one reason or another, we’ll really get a straight answer.
That’s what the internet is for, though, because what’s the harm in answering honestly if neither party knows each other at all or ever has to converse again?
These 18 women posed some really great questions for the men of our species, and the answers are frank and honest (good or bad), so let’s dive in!
18. It happens to dudes, too.
What things have women done that make you uncomfortable?
A: Had a few grab my a$$/junk at random. Even had a couple that just forced a kiss on me.
I don’t usually experience women trying to pick me up, but the few times I did was never great. It was either negging, overly sexually aggressive and always in a group.
17. Are you just being dramatic?
How long does it take to recover if you’ve been hit in the balls?
A: Anywhere from 5 minutes to literally turning to dust like we were Thanos snapped.
A while ago I was playing hurling (an Irish sport) with a couple of friends of mine. One of my friends hit the sliotar (the ball) at me and it went straight to my balls. I lay on the floor for a solid 5 minutes and it hurt for another twenty minutes afterwards. Not recommended.
16. Sort of…
Do guys really care that much about boob and butt size?
A: It’s more about shape to me.
The shape of a woman’s body I find really attractive but none of it has to be big at all.
15. The answer is…sort of.
Do penis’ float like a buoy?
I heard they do but have never been able to verify it.
A: I mean it’s buoyant but it can’t really do much besides lazily sorta half float there.
Still amused my wife to learn.
14. They really don’t notice.
Do you notice the little things about women like a new hair cut, when they wear makeup or a nice outfit?
A: I can’t speak for everyone but for me, nope. Not at all. My uncle had a moustache for like 20 years and one day decided to shave it off. I didn’t notice it. I noticed there was a weird atmosphere around me like “come on, say something”, so I small talked with him. A few hours later after he left they asked me if I seriously didn’t notice that his moustache was gone.
My answer was “What moustache?”
And makeup would definitly fly over my head
13. You just like it, right?
Does a beard actually make your face noticeably warmer when it’s cold or is that just a joke?
A: For me any beard warmth is derived by blocking the wind more than anything else.
It’s a windbreaker for your chin/face.
12. A question for the ages.
Why send a d%*k pic?
A: Seriously I am a man and it baffles me too that anyone would think it’s a good idea.
I think a lot of men reason that since they’re visually oriented and would definitely like to see a vagina, the golden rule should apply. Spoiler alert, men and women are different.
It’s laughably naive. It reminds me of when I was a child and blew dandelion seeds all over the bride at a wedding because I thought it would be magical.
11. So wholesome.
What makes you feel loved?
A: A compliment, a hug or a kiss we don’t have to initiate.
hugs and compliments. even if they don’t react much to the compliment, trust me… it sinks in deep. they might not react because it’s so rare they don’t know what to do. they might also think it’s not a real compliment the first time you give it.
10. We all want to know.
are your d%*ks shriveled when they arent hard?
A: the balls are shrivelled when at rest or when cold, in warmer weather, they are hanging down. As for the shaft, there are 2 types, growers and showers. Showers are basically the same length when erect or flacid, showers are small when at rest, but grow pretty big when erect. When at rest, not really shrivelled, just smaller, the skin is shrivelled a bit
9. Your mileage may vary.
What does it feel like when you’re having sex and you’re trying not to “get there”? Is it frustrating? What do you do/think about to keep it from happening?
A: I sometimes do math like 333*3… But often I am fine with just controlling things to focus mostly on her pleasure instead of mine. Tho sometimes she is excited and ends up moving in unaccounted ways while I am a hair away from orgasming and there is no stopping it.
I definitely dont find it frustrating. It is still very enjoyable.
8. Are all compliments the same?
Are compliments from your gfs just as impactful or more than impactful than from a random woman? I compliment my boyfriend a lot and vice versa and it makes me feel so happy.
I always see stories from guys about how good it made them feel getting those compliments out of nowhere. I have never gotten compliments really as a woman besides from family members or a few teachers before I was in a relationship. Personally, Id just feel awkward and weird of a random guy complimented me.
A: Personally, as long as the person seems genuine and it isnt inappropriate, I would be joyed to get one. Now if i personally believe the complement is another matter
7. For the sporty types.
Are athletic cups uncomfortable? Hot as in temperature?
A: Yes and yes. Hate the things so glad to be out of school and PE classes.
6. Seriously, what’s with the noise.
I’ve always wanted to know: why do you like loud machinery so much? For older men it’s mowers, leaf blowers and such. For younger men, it’s modified cars and motorbikes.
What’s the deal with the loud machines?
A: I think it’s less about the noise and more with a man who loves to play with toys.
Power tools, cars, motorcycles, are all toys. We use them to get jobs done or to work on them. We feel proud of our accomplishments of a freshly mowed and well cared for yard, our the exhaust tone we picked out for our car, or the way our vehicle drives and handles.
5. Another level indeed.
What does a male orgasm feel like? I know this can’t be answered with words but I just am so curious. Like i understand being turned on but the way men are turned on is another level so their orgasm has to be SOMETHING.
A: I think, as for women, it is different for different men as well.
Personally, for me there is this warm feeling building up, from the base, like hot water flowing up the shaft, then I get this tingling sensation all over it, it feels like blood flows out of my finger tips and brain, into my loins, I try to hold it in, then “BOOM”, everything gets released at once, a satisfying warm feeling, that only lasts a couple of seconds…
4. Presents are hard.
what is a nice gift that you’ll ACTUALLY like, not just pretend to like but hide away in the back of your cupboard??
A: You have to know the person to get him a really good gift that will connect with him.
Same goes for a woman right. You want to give him the videogame he actually wants, and not just any videogame. If you give him flowers, you may want to figure out his favourite kind. It requires some research ^^
Other than that observe what he uses often, and buy him that because he’ll need it anyway. It does not have to be much. It can be food/snacks/wine he is into. I bet he has some favourite brand of care products.
I’m always buying my things from 2 main webshops. If I got a giftcard for either of them, it would make me very happy. Giftcards seem lazy, but I’m always asking for them. People refuse to give that, because they want to come up with something more thoughtful. But I would leggit be super happy, and share with them what I bought 😛
3. It’s not you…
What’s the top thing you wish we understood about you?
A: That sometimes just being with you and not talking doesn’t mean I’m grumpy or that I don’t want to be around you.
Same if we don’t answer texts, it’s not because we’re in a mood, we’re just watching something or doing something and can’t multitask.
2. Bathroom etiquette.
So like- do you wash your hands after peeing? I feel like a lot of men dont ,but you are touching your thing? How many men sit down when peeing? (sensitive topic)
Men that dont have dads like they left before you were born or you were to young. How did you learn to pee or do you just sit down?
A: I wash my hands any time I touch down there.
1. You have to dig deep.
Do guys care if women get cosmetic procedures done?
A: I don’t necessarily care about the work itself, I’d be more concerned about understanding why she felt like she wanted to get it done and help her feel body positive for whatever work has been done or if she feels like she needs work.
I’d like to say that I’m surprised by some of these but honestly, nothing really surprises me anymore.
What honest question would you like answered by the opposite sex? Drop it in the comments!
