Catrin Williams, using the handle @catttttt___ on Twitter, tweeted two photos on August 19 with a caption that pretty perfectly sums up what fun it can be to be female on the internet.

Photo Credit: Twitter, @catttttt___

The first photo is of a pair of headphones, helpfully labeled “new headphones,” that Williams dared to post on Snapchat.

Such a racy picture. NSFW?
Photo Credit: Twitter, @catttttt___

The second photo shows a response she got from some rando about how sexy he imagined she’d be in the headphones and nothing else. Um.

Men, please come collect this gross guy.
Photo Credit: Twitter, @catttttt___

Her tweet of the two photos side by side has been retweeted over 30,000 times, because it’s something women hear so often about posting pictures online: “Boys wouldn’t send weird messages if you didn’t put up such slutty photos.”

See? If only the headphones weren’t so HOT, this wouldn’t be a problem. Just stop provoking men into responding to you. Posting a picture of new headphones, wearing nothing at all, in a lascivious pose on top of a floral bedspread sends out a dangerous message.

A real lady doesn’t have ears, or a bed, or a body, or an internet presence.