He Wanted Her To Let His Mom Pick Her Look For Their Wedding And She Protested. Who’s Right?

I remember the last time I told someone they were “delusional”…

Yeah, that didn’t go so well.

And it sounds like that’s what’s going on here, too.

But did this woman cross the line for what she said to her fiancée?

Take a look and see what you think.

AITA for calling my Fiancé’s delusional for wanting me to let his mom pick my makeup/look for the wedding?

“My fiancé and I are getting married.

He comes from a conservative family and his mom has been up in the wedding planning posing as “supervisor” to oversee and to “catch & elminiate” anything that could be seen as “offensive”. After the wedding dress fiasco(I was told to get a dress that wasn’t showing too much ‘skin’…came the makeup issue.

I showed my fiancé some looks I wanted to choose from and he gasped and said his mom would have a stroke if she saw “these”. I in frustartion asked what should I do and next thing I knew but did not expect was for her to send me “looks” of models with almost no makeup or light makeup. No eyeshadow, no glowly lipstick just…plain look. I refused to choose from any of her suggestions and we had an argument.

My fiancé came home and argued about how I’m planning on humiliating him and family at the wedding by wanting to look like a…”clown” and make a joke out of BOTH of us. I snapped and called him delusional to think I’ll let his mom get a say in what makeup I should wear since it’s my face. He said there’s no such thing as “mine” and “yours” in marriage and that I’m clearly too “immature” for it.

He has been avoiding me while saying “you know why I’m avoiding you…” and his mom sent a text about how she has my best interest at heart.


Let’s see what folks had to say on Reddit.

This reader said she’s NTA and she shouldn’t marry this guy.

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Another individual also said she’s NTA and said she shouldn’t marry this guy even though they’re going to have a baby.

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And this individual said this guy has STRUCK OUT and she needs to leave him.

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