She Won’t Change the Song for Her First Dance at Her Wedding Even Though Her Stepsister Wants Her To. Is She a Jerk?

The first dance is a big moment at any wedding and no one ever wants to screw it up…

And no one else should be able to weigh in and try to get anyone to pick a song, right?

Well, you know how people can be…

Check out this story from Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page and see if you think this bride-to-be is acting like a jerk.

AITA for not wanting to change my first dance song because of my step sister’s association with it?

“We’ve chosen our first dance song. My step sister is not at all happy because she and her ex husband also had this at their wedding, and she said she has a lot of memories with this particular song.

She asked if I could change it, I told her I get it but this is what we want, and I don’t want to change it. She said she understood but she’s been acting different around me and I could tell she was mad/upset.

Most people who know about this don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, but I had my sister and one of my friends tell me I’m being selfish and not understanding here.


And here’s what Reddit users had to say.

One person said it shouldn’t be hard for this guy to find another song.

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And this reader agreed said this is WACKY.

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Another Reddit user said he’s an a**hole and he needs to show some class and maturity.

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