Woman Asks if She’d Be Wrong for Not Letting Her Husband Attend the Baby Shower and the Birth of Their Child

Wow…things gotta be pretty bad if you don’t want the father of your child to attend the shower…or the actual BIRTH.

But that’s what’s going on in this story from Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page.

Get all the details below and let us know if you think this woman is out of line.

WIBTA if I didn’t let my husband attend the baby shower or birth of our child?

“My husband (29yo) and I (28yo) have a daughter (3yo), he was happy when I told him she was a girl.

We’re having another and when I had my ultrasound, I was told it was another girl, again my husband was Happy. Turns out I was told wrong, and it’s actually a boy we’re having, ny my husband freaked out in excitement.

His reaction to us having a boy was nothing like his either of his reactions to having a girl. He was actually jumping around and yelling, he immediately called all his friends and family, he kept hugging and swinging our daughter around telling her she’s getting a brother.

I confronted him about not being this excited about having girls, and he said “cause I wanted a boy ”. I got so p**sed off, I don’t want him at the baby shower (I guess it’s not really a baby shower as we’re not asking for anything, but still) or the birth.

He thought I was kidding at first, but once he realized I serious got really upset and started an argument over it. WIBTA if I didn’t let him attend the baby shower or birth?”