Kids get pretty fired up when parents pay for one sibling’s wedding and not another kid’s…
And that’s what this story deals with!
But did this dad act like an a**hole?
Check out his story below and let us know what you think in the comments.
AITA for paying for my son’s wedding?
“My son is getting married to a wonderful woman. We loved her since the first day we met her.
She was very nice and polite and very good with my granddaughter. My granddaughter is 15 and she never got along with my son’s partners so it’s nice to see the amazing relationship between her and her future stepmom
We were all talking and wedding came up. We asked them what they are planning to do and they told us they can’t afford their dream wedding and their dream honeymoon so they are trying to decide which one to choose. I offered that they could do both and I’ll pay half the price
My other son asked me why I’m paying for their wedding when I didn’t pay for his. I told him that I didn’t like his wife and he knows it. She has been very cold towards us since the first day we met and she hardly ever speaks to us.
I can’t be expected to pay for a wedding I don’t approve of. He said I’m showing favoritism. I told him I’m not, I didn’t pay for his brother’s first wedding either so in order not to show favoritiam I’m willing to pay for his next wedding.
He blew up at me and called me an a**hole and left.”
Now let’s see how Reddit users responded.
One person said he’s an a**hole for what he said, but…
And this reader said he’s NTA but shouldn’t get upset about the fallout from this.
And this individual said you can be an a**hole and be correct at the same time…like in this case…
What do you think about this?
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