As a woman, I will be the first person to say how far we have come when it comes to empowering girls and women. We can be what we want, do what we want, say what we want, and wear what we want, and no one is allowed to say anything.
Of course, people still do say things, but we’ve been taught (and sometimes we even believe) that we shouldn’t listen to any criticism.
That said, boys and men don’t often have this luxury. There are still ways a boy is supposed to act, things he’s supposed to wear, and things he’s definitely not allowed – and sadly, wearing makeup is one of those things men are made to feel badly for enjoying.
This man, a mechanic, started wearing makeup to cover the bags under his eyes and then added some mascara. He feels more confident wearing it, and none of the other mechanics (or anyone else) at work have mentioned it.
I am a mechanic at a fairly large workshop and recently I started to use makeup as I found it was boosting my confidence.
I started with something to cover my eye bags but later on also tried mascara and a few other subtle things. Surprisingly I didn’t get any comments from the other mechanics and everything seemed fine, my confidence was skyrocketing.
He doesn’t regularly have contact with customers, and has rare contact with the two women who work at the desk and do most of the interacting with the public.
Because of how large the workshop is, we mechanics have little to no contact with customers. Customers are handled by two ladies working the front desk and we just go out to pick up the cars. Very rarely we have to talk to customers to figure out the problem.
I also have not much contact to the front desk ladies as we have different break times and our system is automated so we don’t have to talk in person.
Then one day both of the front desk ladies ambushed him, saying that his wearing makeup was unprofessional and causing them trouble at work.
Yesterday I was approached by both of them which is very unusual and they both laid into me, that my makeup is highly unprofessional. Seems like a customer who had seen me had made a comment abouth me.
They were both quite rude, telling me I needed to skip out on the makeup as it was so unprofessional and they had to deal with the customers all the time so they were affected by it. I was stunned as we are usually on friendly terms and them going off at me left me speechless.
Initially he was so shocked that he apologized, but in the aftermath, he realized the request wasn’t fair and doesn’t want to stop. He also doesn’t want to cause them trouble, though, so he’s asking Reddit if he’s the a-hole here.
I apologized in the moment but later on I thought about it and I don’t want to stop wearing makeup. I feel confident with it and I feel like I should be able to put it on. On the other hand they are right that they have to deal with the customers and I don’t want to make it harder for them.
Yes, I’m a guy.
Let’s see what Reddit had to say in response!
This person has probably hit it close to home, saying they’re jealous he looks so nice.
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Some people figured it should be NAH (No A$$holes Here), but this person thought the front desk ladies were definitely in the wrong.
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There are always better ways to handle delicate subjects.
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Others agree that the women probably made up the customer complaint altogether.
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The women were wrong in so many ways.
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The world would be much better off, in my opinion, if everyone would just mind their own business unless someone is being hurt.
What do you think? How would you have handled this? Tell us in the comments!
