Woman Asks if She’s a Jerk for Bailing Out on Her Girls Trip

Things have to be pretty bad if you’re already ON YOUR WAY to the airport for a trip with your friends and you decide to turn around and go home.

So what happened with this woman that caused her to make this decision?

Read her story below to get all the details and see if you think she acted like a jerk.

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AITA for turning around and going home on my way to the airport for a girls trip?

“I (23F) was supposed to go on a girls weekend trip to Spain with my long time friend of almost 10 years (24F) and her other female friend (28F) who I was excited to meet.

We all live in Germany, but her and her friend live about 3.5 hours away from me and I live closer to Frankfurt. They decided that they wanted to drive through the night (about 10 hour) and arrive in the morning and said that if I could meet them in their town I could drive with them. I instead elected to just fly over and meet them there since I live so close to an airport.

The day before the trip she texts me a link to book some tickets to a museum that her and her friend booked. She told me to book for 2pm, which is when they booked for. When I clicked the link, the only time slot available was 8:35am. I pretty much was like whatever I will do something else while they are doing that.

The night before the trip I text her asking her how much I owed her for accommodations and whatever else that we are splitting. This is the second time I’ve asked her since her friend was the one doing the bookings and I just assumed I would send them my share when they told me how much it cost.

She didn’t answer but I just assumed she was sleeping to prepare for the long drive. The morning of my flight (3 hours before my flight leaves) she tells me that I had to book my own hotel room because they’re having a guy friend come with them that they invited last minute.

She sent me a link so I could book at the same hotel as them for that night, but all the rooms were fully booked. I searched around the area too and all rooms were booked or very expensive.

I really wanted to go so I just kind of let it go and prepared myself to spend some extra money for a hotel room for myself in a different hotel, but on the way to the airport I had a gut feeling that I wasn’t going to enjoy myself. So I turned around and went home and sent her a text saying I was going to sit this one out because I was expecting a girls trip.

She’s being short with me now and thinks I’m being unreasonable.


Check out what folks had to say about this on Reddit.

One person said she’s NTA and she should have sat this trip out.

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Another individual has an idea about what’s really going on here.

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And this Reddit user said she’s NTA and suggested what she might want to do.

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