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There is a lot to be said for feeling comfortable in your own skin.
History is filled with people who didn’t, and suffered for it.
But there have also been a great many people, and probably more than we know, who “passed” unnoticed, as the gender they identified with.
A famous example was 19th century Irish surgeon James Barry, renowned in his day, and serving the British military in the rank of Inspector General before he died.
It was only after he died and was being prepared for burial that people discovered the truth.
It’s a difficult thing. No one should have to announce who they are, but no one should have to hide themselves either.
Like James Barry, these 12 transgender people are hiding in plain sight.
1. It’s no one’s business but yours
But it can’t be easy to hide a part of yourself from the people who are close to you.
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2. Feeling safe is so important
No one likes to be talked about. But people love to talk.
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3. Some people just want to feel seen
But, just like society has become more accepting of the gay community,
someday maybe the “stealth thing” won’t feel needed.
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4. Imagine having to navigate romantic relationships
Do you just put it out there? Bring it up on the first date?
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5. Restrooms are stressful even without bathroom bills
Even CIS people hate public restrooms.
Imagine what it must be like for the transgender community.
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6. For some, stealth is fine
As long as you can live your best life as yourself, I say go for it.
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7. It can weigh heavily on your mental health
Whether because you’re keeping a secret, or because you’re not living as your true self.
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8. It’s such a difficult decision to make
You never know how people will react. And you can’t take it back.
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9. Sometimes you get lucky
Especially if your aesthetic fits your form.
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10. It can be a long journey
Sometimes the hardest person to come out to, is yourself.
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11. It’s good to know who you are and what you want
The next step is figuring out how to get it.
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12. So buy the dress, because the second step seems to be Halloween
What better time to be yourself?
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These posts really show the different sides of being transgender.
Did we leave anything out? Let us know in the comments.
