Most parents swear that they don’t play favorites.
I’m sure most of the time they think that’s true.
But most siblings would argue that there is, in fact, a favorite, and for a variety of reasons.
Those reasons, however, can reveal a complex set of family dynamics.
Here’s what 12 siblings have to say about not being the favorite.
1. Even young children have a sense of fairness
And they can be more affected than you know.
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2. It sews competition and dislike between sisters
That can be a hard thing to get over.
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3. But of course, sometimes you make your own bed
They seem at peace with it, at least.
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4. It’s not a hard thing to figure out
Even if you try not to be super obvious about it.
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5. Other times, well… they don’t try to hide it
I mean, just wow.
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6. It can be a really hard thing to feel less than
Dealing with that all your life starts to take a toll.
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Not that picking favorites is ever deserved, but a lot of less-liked siblings think the favorite is undeserving of the attention.
7. Why are awful people so good at hiding their true colors?
Isn’t there a saying, “Truth will out?” When does that happen?
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8. It can be hard to watch
Not that speaking up would do any good.
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9. And some of these parents are downright horrible
I can’t imagine saying this to anyone’s face, let alone my child.
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10. It really puts you in a tough situation
Truly awful.
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11. It can be painful and discouraging
I really don’t envy them.
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12. Eventually you just sort of accept it
It’s not fun, but it is what it is.
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Man, some of these are really harsh! I would say my parents did a better job of hiding who their favorite is, and I hope my siblings feel the same way.
What about you? Were you the favorite? Tell us in the comments.
