Man Asks if He’s Wrong for Asking His Roommate Not to Cook Certain Meals When His Pregnant Girlfriend Visits

Can you really tell someone what they can and can’t cook?

I don’t know about that one…but we’re gonna find out what a whole lot of folks think after we read this guy’s story!

Check it out and let us know what you think in the comments!

AITA for asking my roommate to avoid cooking a certain meals when my pregnant girlfriend visits?

“My girlfriend and I are expecting. We don’t live together but we’re waiting til the baby’s born to figure out our living arrangements.

She’s 4 months pregnant. There are certain smells that she just cannot tolerate and my roommate tends to cook some meals with a smell that causes her to be nauseous. That wouod result in her throwing up and getting sick.

I tried to speak to him about it but he got pretty defensive saying he has a specific diet that he sticks to and that he didn’t see how this was wrong. I cleared things up saying there was nothing wrong with what he was doing but asked him to just not cook those specific meal that have a smell that trigger my girlfriend’s nausea.

He got upset and ranted about how he’s a resident unlike my girlfriend who doesn’t live here and said that he can’t even consider my request since she’s here almost 4 days a week and stays til 10 pm. I tried to discuss it with him and maybe figure out a compromise but he bluntly told me he doesn’t owe me or my girlfriend any accomodations nor compromises.

I thought that was unncesarily rude and selfish of him. He told me to “deal with it” or tell her not to come which was offensive because she’s my partner and she’s pregnant and I need to make sure she’s okay by seeing her weekly.

He’s avoiding me right now. AITA? I figured it wouldn’t be such a huge deal since it wasn’t like I’m telling him to stop cooking at all, just when my girlfriend is over.

Info. I can’t go to her place because she’s currently living with her parents and I can’t go over there because I’m not on good terms with them.”

Check out what Reddit users had to say about this.

This person said he’s an a**hole and he shouldn’t make his roommate’s life revolve around this.

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Another Reddit user said they think they know what’s really going on here…

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Another individual said this guy and his GF need to figure this out soon or they’re gonna be in a world of hurt.

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