She Won’t Let Her Friend Wear Her Shoes to Her Bridal Shower. Is She a Jerk?

No, you can’t borrow my shoes for your bridal shower!

Well, that’s a weird one, huh…?

But you never know what you’re gonna get on Reddit’s “Am I the A**hole?” page!

So check out this woman’s story and see if you think she was out of line for how she behaved.

AITA for not allowing my best friend to wear my red bottom heels to her bridal shower?

“I  have a childhood best friend of over 16 years who’s getting married next month. We’ve always borrowed each others clothes and shoes just how best friends do! I also want to say this first, I’m not materialistic at all.

I received the shoes from my mom as a gift, and I’ve only worn them two times. They are my special occasion heels and they mean a lot to me because i know my mom worked really hard to be able to gift me them! Yesterday my best friend came over and she wanted to borrow black heels and i was like yeah!

Go through the closet and she pulled the box out tried them on and was like “Omgg! These are the ones they’ll go perfect with my dress” I then said I’d love to let you borrow anything but those, and she said seriously? It’s my bridal shower. I said I know I’m just not comfortable with you wearing them.

She took them off and said don’t worry about the shoes I’ll find my own, she left a few minutes after and texted me saying that wasn’t cool and that she would do it for me. I just wrote back and said i know, but I’d also respect your things” it’s been a day and I haven’t heard from her.

AITA for not feeling bad?”

And here’s what Reddit users had to say.

This person said she’s NTA and that no one is entitled to her things.

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Another individual said she needs to set boundaries with her friend.

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And this Reddit user said the way her friend behaved is not sane.

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