What Instantly Makes a Guy Hot? Here’s How Folks Responded.

Okay, we’re gonna get into some really serious subject matter today…

It’s a subject that all the fellas out there should be mindful of because it might help them out…

What makes a guy instantly hot?

Let’s see what the fine folks on AskReddit said about this.

1. That’s hot.


Speaking with kindness to people around you, bartender, waitress, valet.”

2. Amen!

“Good listeners.

Not people who are just waiting for their turn to speak.”

3. A man’s man.

“Blew a tire on the way back from a trip last weekend. Still had a couple of hours to go on the drive.

Pulled over and changed it in about 15-20 minutes. Wife kept taking pictures of me while I was making the tire change. The remainder of the drive home, I kept catching her staring at me out of the corner of my eye.

Fast forward 2 days later… walk up behind her in the kitchen and she’s zooming in on a couple of those pics she took.

I think she was into my basic tire changing skills.”

4. Get your hands dirty.

“I walked through the house on the way from the garage to the backyard with a crescent wrench in my hand and my wife grunted at me like an animal.

She told me she likes when I do manual labor.”

5. Look into my eyes.

“Nice smile and eyes.

Voice is also important too it can affect my entire attraction to him.”

6. Funny business.

“He’s funny. Not in a ‘prank’ way but in a clever word-play manner.

He doesn’t have to like what I like, but he allows me to like it without being demeaning or belittling.

I dated a guy a guy once who was very different physically from my type – but he was so d**n hot because he was clever, funny and caring.”

7. Kindness.

“Being kind to people when he didn’t have to be.

Favorite quote from my favorite movie:

“I’d only give one piece of advice to someone marrying. We’re all quite similar in the end. We all get old and tell the same tales too many times. But try and marry someone kind.”

About Time.”

8. Humble.

“When he talks about something that he’s knowledgeable and excited about without talking down on you for not knowing about it.”

9. Be aware.

“Self awareness.

Which translates into empathy for himself and others, kindness, honesty, deep conversations, A CALM ENERGY. Basically, a REAL nice genuine man not the ones who pretend to be nice guys just to get in your pants.

Oh, and being a good dog dad or good dad in general.”

10. Mama’s boy.

“A man who actually loves and takes care of his mom.

Added bonus if he’s an animal lover.”

11. Makes the man.

“Man in uniform. I don’t just mean cops and military.

I work in a hospital ER and see a lotta EMTs. When I see those guys wearing their EMS t-shirts and black cargo pants, it turns me on.

No idea why, it just does.”

12. Are you taking notes?

“A smart shirt with the sleeves rolled up just past the elbows.

Dunno what it is, but it just works.”

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Thanks a lot!