Women Who Love Women, What Do You Look For In A Date?

One of the best tools for understanding people and relationships that don’t look like our own is being able to ask honest questions and keep our non-judgmental ears open when they’re answered.

If you’re a man or a woman who identifies as straight, you might be curious what women-seeking-women look for in each other or in a relationship – and these 18 ladies are ready to dish!

18. Well that sounds adorable.

Someone cute.

I really like people who take affection well and likes to be spoiled a little.

17. The same as anyone else.

I just want to fall in love with my best friend and have the feelings returned </3

16. Hugs are life.

Someone who treats me well and gives good hugs.

Hugs are life

Been slacking hugs for a while.

15. No games please.

Brains, sense of humor, style, straightforward vibes.

14. I little love never hurt anyone.

A girl who likes me back

Edit: wtf um I just opened the app to all of these interactions and awards (that I have no idea what they mean btw) and I’m just shock ty lol

13. It never hurts.

A girl who expresses herself healthily and uplifts me.

Nice thighs don’t hurt either.

12. This might be a bit hard to find.

The ability to build a wooden shack with her bare hands, a desire to befriend wild bears and a talent when it comes to axe-throwing.

11. Opposites attract.

I am the introvert that needs to be adopted by an extrovert.

So a girl who is either super talkative that I can lovingly listen to all the time, or someone equally comfortable with silence.

Most of my partners have been rather extroverted and very talkative….including my friends too.

I just like to listen and laugh with them.

10. If that’s your thing.

A woman who has a genuine and vested interest in me, who has similar interests/things in common.

Giant gazongas are also a plus.

9. Everyone loves a sense of humor.

Assertive, strong-minded, intelligent As with anyone, a matching sense of humor!

8. It’s just practical.

Someone about the same size as me, so if the relationship works out our wardrobes double.

My gf’s tiny feet are a constant annoyance to me. She’s the same size and height but teeeny tiny feet.

7. Seems like a pattern.

My best friend LOL sigh

I realized I was into girls when I came to the conclusion I had been desperately in love with my high school best friend without realizing it. We stopped talking for a long time for unrelated reasons and I was legitimately heartbroken.

We’re friends again now but I don’t feel romantically attracted to her anymore. Plus she’s straight so it wouldn’t have worked out.

6. The big three.

Assertive kind and hawt.

5. There’s a reason for that.

A gamer. Surprisingly hard to find one where we’re interested in each other :’)

As I once heard. “The reason you can’t find a Gamer GF is because she’s not out there, she is at home gaming”

4. Maturity cannot be overstated.

That she is kind, smart, and has a sense of humour. It’s also nice if she has a nice smile but looks aren’t as important in my opinion.

I like a woman who can have a witty conversation with me and doesn’t bend to someone else’s opinions easily.

The most important thing is definitely how kind they are to other people though. It shows a lot about maturity.

3. She loves bad jokes.

Someone with a truck load of so-bad-they’re-good jokes.

2. This sounds wonderful.

Smart, witty, kind, and faithful.

Someone who gets me. Someone who likes me back.

Well yeah, if I were to make a move on another lesbian showing interest in me, that would obviously be

checks notes

predatory? Not what I expected, but hey, the notes never lie. Time to sit in a corner and never flirt with anybody ever so they don’t think I’m creepy.

1. This cracked me up.

i love me a scary lady. hard-asses are my weakness lol

I like the kind of woman that could kill me without trying.

Interesting, right? But honestly not all that surprising, because humans gotta human.

If you’re someone who could reply to this question, drop your answer in the comments!