Posts by Ingrid Cruz

We think we make decisions independently until we realize that biases can cloud our judgment. So how do we become objective enough to make better decisions? Science and psychology can help you understand your own biases so you can hopefully figure out what influences you. And hey, remember that your interest in self-improvement means you’re...

Unless you’re living under a rock, you’ve probably heard of the short film Hair Love and its well-deserved 2020 Oscar Award for Best Short Film. Director Matthew A. Cherry had an NFL career before settling on filmmaking as his next passion. His short film touches on the struggle of Black fathers who struggle to style their...

Let’s face it: some things sound horrible, but they’re a necessary part of your well-being. One Reddit thread asked people to reveal things that made them feel better even though they sound horrible at the time. So what are these horrible-sounding things that actually made people feel better? Here are some interesting answers. 15. Eye...

Moving to a new country can be intimidating. Many immigrants all over the world can attest to how hard it can be. It’s true that some people deal with extremism and xenophobia, but the little things can also be equally surprising. One Reddit user posed the following question for a thread: “People who grew up...

Art can make people see things from a new perspective. Turkish artist Uğur Gallenkuş is based in Istanbul, Turkey and is known for his photo collages. A digital artist, Gallenkuş focuses on poverty, war zones, and refugees. He uses his art to spark conversations between their lives and those of people who are more privileged....

Family-friendly films and content are Disney’s bread and butter, but that doesn’t mean they don’t hide “adult” jokes that go over kids’ heads. A Reddit thread asked people to share their favorite such jokes. There were thousands of responses, but here are some that stood out. 15. Oedipal Jokes, Hercules “When Hercules is walking with Meg...

Steven Spielberg changed the world when he made Jaws in 1975. Along with creating the summer blockbuster, he also gave the world a fear of sharks! But film channels, urban legends, and our own paranoia have wrongfully made us fear sharks when there are other threats out there as well. Data shows that the chance of...

Ahhhhhhhhhhh…. this feels GREAT! The world is full of stressors, but there are always things that are guaranteed to make your day better. Everyone is different and some things feel better for others, but one Redditor wanted to find out what makes people feel good. The question for Redditors was: “What is the best (nonsexual)...

AskReddit is a treasure trove of random questions. They can get goofy or deep, depending on the person who asks. One Redditor asked people a rather random question: “You have complete control over one element from the periodic table, what can you do with it?” Responses ranged from the sarcastic to the practical, to over-the-top....

Giving birth is a huge deal. Moms have to take care of their bodies and ensure their baby is healthy. There are many complications that can make pregnancy and birth difficult. It’s normal for couples to talk about expectations and wishes so that they won’t have to make them on the fly as the mother is...

We live in a world where emojis and shorthand can help get our point across, but we still come across a few language rules that tend to perplex and confuse, e.g. common abbreviations like the one I literally just used. Yes, maybe we don’t have to use common abbreviations such as i.e., e.g. or etc,...

Starting a conversation seems easy. You just open your mouth and speak your mind, right? Not so fast! It’s important to think before we speak and stop relying on crutches that can undermine our message, offend the other party, or make us seem incompetent. Reader’s Digest suggests avoiding these phrases before trying to chat with...

Hopefully, none of us ever have to face arrest – not only is it difficult to get back on your feet, but even just finding competent legal help can prove to be challenging. Of course, it helps to visualize and plan ahead when it’s all in good fun. One Reddit thread asked people which fictitious...

We live in a world governed by science, but that doesn’t mean we have an explanation for everything. Sure, many people don’t believe in ghosts or other supernatural beings, but is it fair to discount the possibility that they exist? One Reddit AMA asked people to reveal things they’ve seen or been through that can’t...

Money isn’t everything, but it can help you with a lot. Unfortunately, it can also reveal who amongst your inner circle or proximity is actually a greedy opportunist. A Reddit thread asked people what happened after they suddenly came into some money. Needless to say, money can make people get desperate. Here are some stories...